Showing posts with label how to date with herpes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label how to date with herpes. Show all posts

How to Dating with Herpes

How to Dating with Herpes

Confidence is the key. I have been through I think just about everything when it comes to dating with Herpes. It's only hard in the mind. If you can overcome it in your head then you will have no problems dating someone. People are a lot more understanding than we want to believe sometimes.

Safety is very important as well. Unless you are going to be with that person for the rest of your life and you both know it you shouldn't have unprotected sex. The fear that it can put in a young women or man's eyes is not worth the pain that you will have to feel because you know you hurt someone. Just because someone did it to you doesn't mean you have to go around doing it to other's because you are hurt or angry.
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Find God. Find yourself. Deal with it and be a man or the woman that you know you are supposed to be in your heart. God bless all of you and I am sorry we are all here, but we are here together to string through this battle. Never give up. Always stay strong and keep that head you.

Find Herpes Support Groups or Herpes Dating Sites. Find herpes support groups in your area ensure you feel not so alone, and you can get some medical and mental support in these groups. Herpes dating sites are the best way for dating with herpes, which avoids discrimination and judgement. Positivesingles.com is the NO.1 in this field.


 

RULES AND SCRIPT FOR "THE TALK"

RULES FOR HAVING THE “THE TALK”:

1. Do not have “the talk” on the first date. No matter how hot the person is and how much you might want to have sex with them. Go home and take a cold shower!

2. Do not have “the talk” when your clothes are already off and one of you is reaching for a condom.  This rarely ends well.

3. If at all possible, try to work it into the conversation naturally.

4. No matter how nervous you are play it cool! The other person’s reaction will be gauged on your delivery. Practice saying it in the mirror, do whatever it takes to be ready to deliver the news in a calm, casual way.

5. Be prepared! I made my own Q & A script which I have attached to this post. The questions are based on questions I have received during “the talk”. Some of the answers are specific for myself, so if you chose to use my script (please do!) you will need to make some adjustments. You can either have the script with you when you tell someone or you could hand it to him or her at the end of a date.

6. Be ready for rejection. Sorry! It’s the truth. When I was younger, I wasn’t always honest with men before becoming intimate with them. In my experience, men are better able to deal with my HSV if I tell them after we’ve had sex. I honestly think it’s because they get the chance to see there is nothing weird going on down there! So, in some ways that may be the easy way out. On the other hand, I have been rejected several times when I have been honest and told the men before having sex. Being honest is not the easy way out, but it is the right thing to do.

7. Join PositiveSingles.com to learn more about the tips for "The Talk", the best advantage is that you can avoid "The Talk". Connect the with about 800,000 singles who is living with the same condition who can understand you.